Just to go back to what I was talking about a few days ago about this apparent new sort of disabled person, yesterday I came across this short film from Eliza Rain. I’ve been puzzling over Rain for a while now: a manual wheelchair user, she says she became disabled / started identifying as disabled in the last two or three years, but refuses to state what her disability is. However, she now seems to be quite a prolific Youtuber, uploading a video every couple of weeks. As she puts it, “I make content all about living in London with a disability including travel advice, tourist advice and just general disability good things along with a bit of fashion and fun sprinkled in there.”
In the video I’ve linked to, though, she is talking about prams taking up the wheelchair space on busses. Of course, that is a problem I encounter quite frequently. The trouble is, in this very short video, Rain goes way, way over the top, to the point where she becomes antagonistic and misleading. That is to say, her representation of mums with prams as bolshy bitches refusing to move goes way too far. They may often be reluctant and sigh loudly, and it may sometimes take the intervention of the driver, but in my experience they have always followed the rules and moved their pram to allow me onto the bus. I have never encountered the overt argumentative refusal Rain tries to depict.
It therefore seems to me that she is attempting to over-dramatise things to get attention. If she actually used busses as a wheelchair user, she would know that the vast, vast majority of times it isn’t a problem, leading me to strongly suspect that this is an experience she does not in fact have. Once again, someone is attempting to take ownership of the experiences of others for their own gain. No mums blatantly refuse to move their prams as depicted here; nor have they ever been so argumentative and insulting. Yet the way she presents it, it seems like Rain is the victim of overt intolerance and persecution.
Thus what troubles me about online content like this is, as someone with a congenital physical disability who had to go through things like special school, people who know nothing about experiences like mine are increasingly taking it upon themselves to speak for all disabled people. Miss Rain says she only became disabled a year or so ago, yet she brands herself as ‘Disabled Eliza’ and seeks to inform the entire online world about what it is like to have a disability. Forgive me, but I can’t help feeling offended, as if my sociopolitical voice and experiences are being increasingly hijacked or stolen by people who become disabled, or claim they do, then exploit their disabilities to become self-styled online influencers, despite knowing almost nothing of what me and my friends went and continue to go through.
Having spent over twenty years attempting to chronicle my experiences and thoughts for the online world, I bet anyone would be just as upset by this as I am. I am not trying to suggest Rain or anyone else is ‘faking’ their disability, but rather seising upon their impairment for cultural and political gain, and in so doing effectively usurping voices like my own. Yet I don’t want anybody to speak on my behalf: Surely it is up to guys like me to relate to the world what having a disability is like, including using the wheelchair space on busses; not someone for whom having a disability is seemingly just a means to attract hits on Youtube.